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Being submissive is just another role that a woman can take up every now and then in her relationship with a high value, masculine man. IF your submissiveness is received by a man with love and respect. The key point here is that you need to do this inside a healthy relationship. If you want to know if your relationship is healthy, here are 10 Ultimate s of A Healthy Relationship. Being submissive — whether in a joking or serious way can awaken the most masculine yet tender character in a man. Being submissive just allows for a man to feel more like a man around youand — as a result, have that extra bit of passion for you.
Part of being in touch with your femininity is feeling all the different parts of yourself that you can feel in your body. This is about accepting that there are many different parts of you. You are not just one kind of woman! Submission is a part of learning to become more feminine as well. So, the question of how to be submissive le me to bringing up some things that you will need to understand and therefore be able to be submissive at times.
Many of us naturally feminine women have gotten the message that we need to hide it away. This need to be in control is one of the biggest things that not only repels menbut makes it harder for women to find a good boyfriend and keep him! We as women now have to be right, be smart and be intelligent too. Nothing wrong with all of that. I personally went to law school and got myself a law degree. However, I quickly realised that it did not help me in my relationship whatsoever!
Many women have also learned that they need to be like steel in the face of conflict. That is definitely not how to be submissive at all. A man really wants his woman to be open to himand to let him in emotionally, mentally, sexually, spiritually. He also gets to feel more of a man in the process of feeling your submissiveness and dominating you hopefully from a place of love. The problem with this comes when you face of conflict inside of a relationship.
Yet in the face of conflict, many women often use these steel masks to cover up the natural parts of themselves that would come out when in moments of connectedness with a man. In the face of conflict, a woman can decide to open up to her man and remove the mask. So, let him in and try to let him take the lead — try to trust him even when it feels unfamiliar to trust. The truth is, in general, men are built naturally physically stronger than women.
Deep down, all women have vulnerabilities. All women have deep fears and feelings of uncertainty, especially in the face of violence. Many of us also have a fear of abandonment. A trustable man wants you to show him your vulnerabilities! A lady asked this great question in my facebook group:. For a man to be worthy of submitting to, he needs to be very intelligent, resourceful, and genuine about investing in you and caring about your feelings.
All of that has to occur over time. Places you can never go by yourself. If you find that you have difficulty trusting men, or even people in general, I understand. You have every right to feel that way. I also have an article that may help you with discerning who to trust and whom not to trust. Every day there are men out there standing up for what is right. If you always assume bad intent in a man and let your feminine love be capped by your resentmenthow can a man ever be a man around you?
Example 1: Being submissive is also about trusting your man enough to let him show you the way sometimes. Many women ask how not to be boring in their relationship. And guess what, this is just one of the ways to not be boring.
Surrender and allow your man the gift of your submissiveness! Example 2: Also, you can ask him for help. Asking him for his opinion, or asking him for solutions is another method through which you can be submissive in a relationship. Many men who are in touch with their masculinity at their core would jump at the chance to help a woman with something — really! It makes him feel needed, and useful. So, ask him for help even with the smallest things like bringing the shopping in, opening a jar, carrying something heavy, undoing a knot, etc.
Give him trust where you know it is deserved, and do it without question. The masculine energy wants to be trusted. If you doubt your man all the time, it feels hurtful. It drains from the relationship bank! Example 3: Know that he wants to have good direction to add to your life, so verbally thank him and appreciate him for gifting you with direction. Is your man serious about committing to you? This is because each mistrust is possibly stripping him of hope, as well as stripping him of his trust in you and the relationship! You just express your fear when you know he may well be wrong.
You just have to behave as a woman who is willing to show that you are open to him even when he is wrong. What you want to avoid, is fighting to be top dog in the relationship. This would crush his masculine soul.
Instead, to add value to your relationship, would you prefer to suggest to him that it makes you feel scared and nervous because of list reasons? As a woman who is learning to give a man the gift of being submissive, of course you would choose the second option. Of course, if this is a man who is constantly making bad decisions, you may not want to stay with him long-term. However, the principle of learning to show up more submissive and open in your feminine energy is the same.
Choose to value openness MORE than cutting him down and emasculating him. Ultimately, inside of a healthy relationship, it should be more important to you to value openness, than it is to value cutting him down. Because being open and surrendering adds to the passion, emotional attraction and emotional connection inside of a relationship. The same protective instinct applies with their wife or girlfriend, if only she could show a little innocence and submission — looking up to him as the leader. Innocence can also erode with a very high of sexual partners as well as with the of toxic relationships you have been in.
We are encouraged to do things that basically ruin our innocence from a young age. A girl who is well loved and who feels pretty and beautiful. What does her energy feel like? Is she warm or cold? Is she hyperactive or calm? Is she vengeful or vulnerable? Despite you having a possibly traumatic upbringing, CAN you find it within yourself to connect to an innocent and pure girl within you? You see, no high value, masculine man wants to fail at leadership, especially with his woman.
To be submissive, a woman has to be OK with being uncertain.
Just look to your man as a possible source of strength for you when you might need it. A lot of people think that by not trusting people, they are being strong, independent and smart. We walk around, holding ourselves back, not able to be free and to let go, and to fully enjoy what life has to offer. We become unable to give people a chance to show their better side often if you trust someone, they want to please you MORE. Read my article about what is a strong woman.
The quality of your relationship with your man is in direct proportion to the level of uncertainty that you can handle. By surrendering, you give your relationship the chance to be more real and just be free. Without so much pent up anger and negative association that plagues many modern marriages and relationships. Men can come to resent a woman who is always fighting to be more ificant than he is. By letting her guard down, a woman can start the process of letting him in: being open to him.Submissive girlfriend wanted
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